Etiquette

When planning to meet...

Do's:

When reaching out, please introduce yourself politely. Share your name, age, and specify whether you prefer an incall or outcall booking.
- Provide details for the desired booking date, time, and duration, along with the city where you'd like to meet.
- Ensure to attach:
  - A clear selfie showcasing your handsome face.
  - Another selfie where you hold a handwritten note in frame that reads "For Victoria".
  - Optional but helpful for expediting the booking process:
    1. Include a link to your LinkedIn profile (with 200+ connections).
    2. Include your business email for employment verification purposes.
I kindly request your willingness to undergo a simplified verification process to ensure mutual comfort and safety.
- I have undergone rigorous screening and verification processes to list my advertisements, including age and photo verification. I simply ask that you be willing to go through a similar, yet less invasive process.
  - This process typically takes a maximum of 20-30 minutes with prompt information submission. Your privacy and discretion will be fully respected.
Be prepared to submit a deposit to confirm your booking:
- For Incall bookings, the deposit is 25% of the total booking cost.
- For Outcall bookings, the deposit is $100 out of the total booking cost.
- For FMTY bookings, the deposit is 50% of the total booking cost.
  - Deposits are deducted from the total cost, with the remaining consideration due in cash (large denominations, please) at the start of our time together.

Don'ts:

Calling my advertised phone number. This number is for text only, as I find phone calls to be particularly draining, and often used as an opportunity to waste both of our time.
- This especially applies to "No Caller ID" numbers. I will not answer any number that calls me, but especially not a number with zero real world information attached to it.
Texting me from a text app/VoIP number. I will give you a single chance to text me from your real number (if I am feeling generous with my energy and time), and if you do not then I will simply block your number.
- If you have genuine discretion concerns, you may verify yourself with your real number but then request contact on a different number or contact method.
Contacting me to waste time, try to see me for free or "off the clock", or any number of reasons that do not amount to trying to book time with me.
- If you have genuine questions, concerns, or inquiries for me, that is completely fine. So long as my time and energy is respected, and you do not try to bypass any of my requirements for booking, you may ask me just about anything, so long as it is not explicit in nature.
Asking for explicit services. Compensation is for my time and company alone, and I will not entertain any questions about what I offer beyond that, regardless of how you try to disguise it (acronyms, euphemisms, etc).

When we meet...

Do's:

Have the consideration ready upon arrival, in an unsealed envelope, and placed on the bathroom countertop. Large denominations, please.
If meeting in a public place, please have the consideration ready in a book or gift bag and hand it to me within the first few minutes while we greet each other.
Plan accordingly, as dates in the 4hr+ time frame require time in a public setting (drinks, small bites, an outing, etc.). Clients within genuine discretion concerns may get in touch for alternative options.
I appreciate that you keep all information that is shared during our time together confidential, just as I will.
I appreciate you giving me a minimum of 12 hours notice should you need to cancel or reschedule our date. Please see cancellation policy for more details.

Don'ts:

Taking photos/videos of me without my consent during our date.
Broaching any of the following topics:
- "What is your real name?"
- "Do you offer X (explicit service)?"
- "How many clients do you see per day/per week/per year?"
- "So... busy day today?"
- "What was your worst experience/client doing this?"
- "Will you go to dinner/coffee/lunch/vacation 'off the clock' since we get along so well?"

Following these guidelines for etiquette ensures our time together runs smoothly and easily, keeping us both comfortable and content. Your understanding is much appreciated.